Wednesday, December 19, 2012

relationship, commitment, sincerity

Christmas is just a week time to go. I can't wait to be back home for Christmas this year as I did not get to spend Christmas with my family last year :(
Anyway, Christmas Christmas Christmas is the best holiday season in a year for me. That glorious joyful indescribable feelings when it comes to Christmas. Besides, I am always excited for Christmas because New Year, my birthday, and Chinese New Year is coming soon all in once.

By the way, I just had a brief heart to heart chitchat with my friend yesterday. Talking about how complicated things in our life are. When move on and hang on are neither the best way, in fact we are just not sure. Whichever way chosen, "having the right perspective is the key, thus will make a huge difference" (quoted from When It Counts by WongFu Prod.).

During our chitchatting, I eventually came to realize that everything related to relationship will lead us to commitment and sincerity. Parents and children relationship, parents are committed to raise their children, while children are committed to respect parents. Siblings relationship, they are committed to take care each other. Even as a student, who doesn't hate assignments, assessment, exams? in fact, students are also committed to finish those. Same goes with friendship and bf/gf relationship, those people who we get to choose. When one does not appreciate the bond that's been built, there will be no commitment being taken. When one does not appreciate the others, there will be no such thing called relationship. Believe it or not, even with our beloved pets at home, we are committed to feed and protect them. I am very sure being committed to something is not easy. We need to put effort while maintaining the commitment. So far, I've seen a lot of people are not ready to start a relationship because they are just afraid to bear the commitment. I really think the word commitment is just a nicer way to replace the word responsibility, but the meaning is similar.

Talking about commitment is very complex yet simple. Sincerity is all that it takes. I really salute and respect those couples who can maintain the relationship for a really long time. Of course it's not easy, but the commitment that they took is proven sincere. Have you guys ever seen old grandpa and grandma walking in the street while holding hand, and your mind says "They are so sweet, I want to be like them in the future". Why? Answer yourself, it's in your heart.
I believe everything comes from the heart will make a lot easier at the right time. That's why people always say Follow your heart because eventually you will love it although it may seem hard.

Ok, I've really talked so much crap here LOL!


Siberian Husky... He is just very very handsome <3 p="p">
fyi: this dog really takes a lot to commit!


keep calm and stay classy

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Sunday, December 16, 2012

The 3 Idiots!

Thank God the week is over. That's all I can say after torturing myself with all assignments, assessments and last but not least dissertation. Around 1 month ago, I have already warned myself that all deadlines and practical exams will due 2 weeks before my final exams. Anyhow, I have that kind of disease which I believe all students have, called "Procrastinate". The word tomorrow, later, easy, lazy, and sleepy were always in my mind. So... Yes! I was actually freaking myself out for the past 2 weeks. But it was not until I had to write my dissertation. An approximately 20 pages of research papers were due in a week time (well, at least a week for me). Silly me didn't get to start it earlier. Guess what I get? Exhausted! LOL.. Anyway, I managed to finish it just in time :)

and Im in my final exam week now. First exam, French has been done last Friday. I was quite confident my answers actually. So.. no worries, no stress. But then, I've gotten a lot more to go.

Wonder why I name this post The 3 Idiots? Interesting. A friend of mine suggested me to watch this Indian movie. It's a 2hrs 45min movie, but it's worth-to-watch movie. It's a very meaningful and inspiring movie. Well especially for teenagers like me, future will sometimes lead me to fear and confusion. No idea whether I'm in the right path for my future career. Those small feelings that made me unable to live the moment. People nowadays strive to be the number one, not to be the best. Fame and money are undeniably deceiving. Well, don't get me wrong, I'm not saying they are not important but there is a lot more to explore in our life. Being so competitive with the world will only pressure and frustrate you because people will never get enough, that's in our nature.
To be passionate seem a lot easier than to be competitive. Stop chasing money but let money chases us.

I will put 2 links below, the first one is the trailer & the second one is the full movie with English subtitle.



The 3 Idiots (Movie Trailer)

fyi: I watched it from my friend's laptop in high quality version, Im not sure about this one. 

The 3 Idiots - Full Movie


Oh, I feel like it has been a long time I did not post the song of the day. Boys Like Girls - Be Your Everything is my current favourite song, and I can't get enough of it =)


Boys Like Girls - Be Your Everything


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Saturday, December 1, 2012

Wreck it, Ralph!

Today, I just went to watch a game inspired movie Wreck it Ralph! Im pretty sure most of you heard it or watched it already. This movie is such an inspiration for me! I will give 5 out of 5 for this movie <3 p="p">To be honest, I've never played this game before LOL.. When I first looked at the trailer, didn't even have any idea and bother to consider. Somehow, I have a feeling that the movie might be interesting so I watched it! Anyhow, I really like a movie with a lot of meaning in it:

"You don't have to be somebody else to be recognized, be yourself is all what it takes!"

"What is a medal, trophy, award? The real champion is in you, not them!"

"There is nothing good or bad, it depends on how you perceive them."

Alright, a short post will do brighten up my night LOL!

Good night :)