jessyfrenatta ♡: August 2014

Thursday, August 14, 2014

How often do you dream?

Everyone is dreaming for sure, but how often do you dream? Do you remember your dream? Do you ever feel curious what your dream is actually telling you? Do you ever ask yourself why do I have this dream? I know some people just totally ignore their dreams. Most people will only remember their dream when it is extremely happy or extremely sad or it's a nightmare.

Well, for me? I dreamed almost everyday and I make sure I remember my dream! LOL
I never had this curiosity until few years back when I always had this dream of being a murderer for a week in a row creepy huh. Ever since then, I kind of tried to remember my dream and then googled it meanings as soon as I woke up. Do you know that you can forget your dream right away as soon as you wake up? I blogged about this before here

Last time, I used to jot down some symbols that I can remember in my dream on my phone as soon as I woke up. Believe me, there were times when I struggled to memorize what it was in my dream and it was bugging me the whole day haha! ~~I seriously had nothing to do.~~

I dont know why until now, I kind of dreaming everyday and I can remember my dream just like that. Dreaming is kind of becoming my addiction now. Told you I'm a dreamer! LOL

Then I found this very interesting website: http://www.dreammoods.com/ - Click here

This website tells me a lot, lemme repeat A LOT about dreaming, they tell you the History of Dream, Types of Dream, Why you should remember your dreams, and a lot more.

My favourite page is Dream Dictionary. They tell you the meaning of every symbol appears in your dream. Like for example, if you see a Candle in your dream, then that means

Candle

To see a burning candle in your dream signifies that good luck and hope will be coming your way in small and steady amounts. You are in a comfortable stage in your life and may be seeking spiritual enlightenment. Lit candles are also symbolic of intellect, enlightenment, awareness or the search for truth.

To see an unlit candle denotes feelings of rejection or disappointments. You are not utilizing your fullest potential. If you try to light the candle, but it won't light, then it represents grief. You are in denial about something.

To see a candle blow out in your dream indicates that you are surrendering a significant aspect of yourself. You are letting go of something that used to be important to you.

To watch the candle burn down to nothing in your dream signifies your fears of aging and dying. Alternatively, it represents a fear of sexual impotence.

To see a red colored candle in your dream symbolizes some intimate or romantic relationship. You may not be giving the relationship a fair chance and are dismissing it before you invested sufficient time to learn more about the other person. On the other hand, you may just not be feeling any chemistry or passion. - copyright to Dream Moods

Of course guys, you SHOULD NOT! 100% trust in this kind of things and put your life on it, moreover if you are a believer, like me! However, I do enjoy reading this website. Sometimes a little symbol has a good meaning in it, and it totally brightens my day. So I thought of sharing this to you.

I hope this post will inspire you!

Good Night x Sweet Dream

Monday, August 11, 2014

HOW TO LIFE ?

It seems like 'Life' is an everyday word. A very common word that we human often ignore the true meaning in it. As described in the dictionary: life |līf| is the period between the birth and death of a living thing, esp. a human being. Basically, life is just a simple word to explain that we human beings have time limits to stay alive in this resourceful planet until death come. Born in this resourceful Earth has made us capable to just stay alive. But . . . .

"Everyone knows how to stay alive but not everyone knows how to live a life" - Jessy Frenatta

That was just a random quote that suddenly clung into my mind couple days ago. A lot has been going on here and there. Sometimes, I just like to lay still and put my mind together. Reflecting how I have grown up in the past 5 years. Reminding how every steps and decisions I took had shaped me into the person I am now. Thinking about how my life will turn out in the next 5 or 10 years. Dreaming about how I want to have a perfect life. Often, I get struck by reality and wake up wondering how should I live a life?

If I were to make a survey on how do you picture a perfect life? I am pretty sure the answers are not far from being rich, being healthy, being loved, being famous, being attractive, being successful and so on. All things that will just make you HAPPY on the surface. Now, I am telling you that happy is infinity ∞∞∞ You will never had enough until you feel blessed and content!

Always want to have more, that is one of the reasons why not everyone knows how to live a life.

I am not coming from an elite family who can just do things in a snap of a finger but I thank God I had enough. Of course, there are sometimes when I have the urges to have more but I am so much better now than I was yesterday. Maybe it's not the time, maybe I deserve something more?

Ever feel like you are imprisoned? You are doing this and that just for someone else's favors. Either it's your parents or friends or anyone, they tell you to do this and not that. Your environment forces you to do what everyone else is doing. Especially for us Asians family, we tend to be more closed minded and stricter. In this case, I am very lucky because my parents are very open-minded. They accept changes and give me freedom. With a note that I must be responsible with whatever decisions I made. Nevertheless, the people around me like neighborhoods and big family are not as open-minded as my parents. Whenever my parents have some conversations with them (you know typical Asians family tend to compare compare and compare) they really support me although that's considered taboo in our neighborhoods. They believe that it's our life we live in, not everyone else's.

I hope this post inspires and motivates you like how it inspires myself.

Monday, August 4, 2014

Bali Closets #OOTD

Hello peeps?! How are you all today! Hope you had a great summer holiday! So I just landed back from Bali couple days ago. I spent a week or so in Bali for my dad's reunion. So yeah, we were pretty much a bunch of aunties, uncles and kiddos.

As you all know, Bali is a very humid island. They are also famous with their cultures, ritual ceremonies and sacred places. Well, not to forget their beaches and entertainments as well!

Today, Im gonna share my outfit coordinates when I was in Bali.

DAY 1